During the recent surrogacy consultation, it became clear that there are many women out there who are suffering silently after having an unhappy, damaging or traumatic experience of ‘donating’ their eggs or being a ‘surrogate’ mother for the benefit of others.
We already provide a feature for women to tell their experiences of the sex trade anonymously and many women have taken advantage of it. Together their stories build a powerful picture of the systemic harms of the sex trade.
We are now providing a similar feature for women who have experienced surrogacy and egg ‘donation.’ This gives you a chance to help put the record straight, to counteract the myths and explain the truth, to say #MeToo, and #TimesUp for the commercialisation and commodification of women’s reproductive capacities.
We would also welcome stories from those who may not have been directly and personally involved but have been close to those who have – for example, midwives, doctors and other healthcare workers who have treated women going through these experiences and procedures or relatives of those who have gone through them, or those who know children who have been born through surrogacy and/or egg ‘donation.’
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But please know that we are deeply grateful to every single one of you who shares your story. Each story is important, moving and powerful, and represents an act of individual courage and resistance. Together they represent part of the collective struggle that is required to bring about change.