Prostitution is not a job and never will be. Here’s why.

By Dana Levy

Dana Levy is an Israeli survivor of prostitution and a passionate campaigner for the Nordic Model in Israel, where a Nordic Model-style law has recently been passed.

Can prostitution be a job?

Sex trade apologists claim that ‘sex work is work.’ Some of them say: “We just need a proper regulatory framework to make it safe,” while others insist: “All regulatory restrictions are harmful. Prostitution is not the problem; society is the problem. You are the problem! If we get rid of the regulations and stereotypes, it will become just like any other job.”

We, the survivors of prostitution who struggle against the sex trade, know the truth: prostitution is not a job.

The core harms of the sex trade are not caused by the stereotypes, nor by the ‘working conditions.’

Prostitution has three inherent characteristics that make its framing as ‘work’ fallacious.

1. Experience has zero value in prostitution

In any other field of work, such as medicine, law, cleaning, or sales, employers look for expertise. The experienced worker finds the job easier and receives higher wages.

Whereas in prostitution, experience is a disadvantage. A young woman who sells her virginity online can make a fortune, but a 40-year-old woman with vast experience will earn very little.

A punter who calls a brothel never asks, “Which is your most experienced employee?” but rather, “Who is the youngest girl?” or “Do you have any new girls?”

You could argue that a fashion model must be young, but even she must learn the job to make the best of her career. An inexperienced model usually works for free until she has an impressive portfolio.

Prostitution is different.

Pinning high prices on the young and inexperienced is closer to car hire than employment.

2. Actual labour is not necessary in prostitution

In every professional field, a worker produces products or actively supplies services.

A teacher teaches, a physician heals, and a waiter takes food orders. A lifeguard at the public swimming pool can sit without getting up for a full day but must be focused at all times on identifying swimmers who might be getting into difficulties or even drowning. A painter’s model can sit without moving for two hours, but she must be alert, concentrated, and responsive to the painter’s instructions.

In prostitution, there is a certain amount of labour and actual service – but it’s not a prerequisite for the deal. The minimum condition is only that you have body temperature.

You can be drugged or drunk to the point of unconsciousness, and you can still be sold.

You might participate, but you don’t have to. Your body can be used for ‘sexual acts’ even without your cooperation.

3. The preconditions for free consent do not exist in prostitution

Consent relies on three pre-conditions: the freedom to choose a sexual partner, the freedom to select the nature of the sexual activity, and the freedom to choose the timing.

If any one of these conditions is missing, sex is forced – for example, when someone forces their spouse to have sex at a time or in a way they don’t want.

In the context of prostitution, none of these three conditions exists. Women in prostitution do not choose their clients (except in fiction); they do not choose the timing; and, in most cases, they have hardly any freedom to determine the nature of the acts performed.

Non-consensual sex is an offense or, at the very least, an abusive act. It definitely cannot be framed as work.

Everyone knows this to be true

Survivors are not the only ones who understand that prostitution is not a job. The general public, including most sex trade apologists, share the same underlying assumptions.

Everyone knows that prostitution is different from other jobs, even from low-level manual ones.

Prevailing norms prove this.

1. Prostitution is not a task that the boss can add to your job description

In many workplaces, bosses sometimes ask employees to do tasks that go beyond their area of expertise. Sometimes you do it for extra pay, and sometimes just because the boss said so. For example, a boss might reasonably ask a secretary to serve coffee to business guests, or send a frontline worker to do the filing, or notify employees that the company is saving on cleaners so now everyone has to clean their own work station.

However, no company will tell employees, “Due to the recent company restructuring that changed your job description, you will now have to sleep with important customers.” No reputable company would consider this, even for extra pay.

2. No one wants their kids to go into prostitution

Sex trade supporters are often annoyed by the question, “Would you let your kids go into prostitution?”

Their typical response is that what their kids do professionally is not relevant and anyway they wouldn’t want them to be cleaners, shop assistants, or maybe even lawyers, either.

But this doesn’t really add up because no one would stop their kids working in cleaning or sales during the summer holidays.

Prostitution is the only ‘occupation’ that responsible parents would refuse to allow their teenagers to do, even for a limited time.

3. Job centres do not send women to ‘jobs’ in prostitution

In many countries, citizens are eligible for unemployment insurance, but they are obliged to accept any available work offered by the government job centre, including less desirable jobs. Nevertheless, no government job centre refers unemployed people to prostitution ‘jobs’ – not even in New Zealand or New South Wales, which have purportedly transformed the sex trade into a standard service industry.

In Germany, a young woman was referred to a brothel in 2005, and the negative response to this embarrassing but unique case continues to this day.

4. No other job requires extensive psycho-social rehabilitation

There are many physically and mentally challenging jobs, but none of them require tens of millions of dollars in rehabilitation budgets.

Here in Israel, there was only one issue that sex trade supporters and opponents agreed on: that massive rehabilitation budgets must accompany the Sex Buyer Act.

“I suffered when I was a waiter,” many young people say when they challenge the abolitionist approach.

But did they need long-term rehabilitation to start functioning normally? Probably not.

5. Researchers are unwilling to try out prostitution themselves

Many researchers and lawmakers are ready to expose themselves to occupations in various industries when they are required to make professional recommendations about those occupations and industries. Prostitution is an exception to this.

In recent decades, a battery of academics and lawmakers who insist that “sex work is work” has emerged. But none of them challenge themselves by actually doing prostitution for a month, a week, or even a day.


This article has not offered any information that was new to you. It has merely set out the obvious facts that everyone already knows to be true.

Prostitution is not a job. It never has been and never will be. Everyone knows this.

Please use the information in this article. Please share it and show it to your friends.

And don’t give up until the violent practice of prostitution has become extinct everywhere.

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10 thoughts on “Prostitution is not a job and never will be. Here’s why.

  1. It’s a job to a sex worker though! Not all sex workers are forced and some of us have never experienced violence in the job and we want to do it to keep the good money coming in, I hate when ex sex workers turn on the job once they’re out of it, it’s not fair on the rest of us that aren’t out yet! I could get a normal job now and work for the minimum wage but I don’t want too!

    1. Guess you’ll have to do something else for money so that millions of other women and girls don’t get forced into being repeatedly raped. It’s not all about you, “Just me”.

  2. A dick is not just a job that somebody has to do. The inside of a human is not a job site.

  3. “Hoarding all the sex”? Women are not sex objects to be owned or “hoarded” ffs. That attitude is your problem, not your income, looks or anything else. Blaming others instead of looking inward at how you can improve your social skills, worldview, empathy, hygiene/grooming (if that is indeed an issue) or other things that may be lacking is what too many men do. You say you “used to be an incel and simp” but a lot of your language is still screaming incel.

    There’s somebody for everybody in this world: even Charles Manson had a wife when he died. On the flipside, Elliot Rodger–a handsome young guy from an upper class background–died a pathetic incel virgin because of his total lack of insight & violent misogyny. Nobody wants to be around that.

    There’s no way to legalize prostitution & get pimps out of the picture entirely. They will always be there in the background, forcing their “girlfriends” into the profession to bring in more money & hand it over to them. Dennis Hof treated his hookers terribly despite the legality in Nevada. But I suspect you couldn’t care less about the human rights of prostitutes or other women since you refer to us as “sex” to be “hoarded”.

    Sex is not a human right. You’re not entitled to anyone’s affection or attraction. Like friendship & trust, it’s either earned or it’s not. Women deal with rejection & loneliness just like men, the difference is we don’t shoot up college campuses & other public places when we do.

    If you just want a warm hole, go stick a donut in the microwave. Supporting human trafficking is pure evil.

  4. So frustrating – I could scream.

    You cannot buy sex – just as you cannot buy friendship, romance, love, loyalty, intimacy. The whole premis of the disgusting term ‘sex work’ is built on a lie.

    When a man (or woman) pays for the services of a prostitute, they are in fact indulging in a deluded form of masturbation in which a human being’s body is involved.

    If the prostitute finds the exchange repulsive, and has to find mental strategies to get through the ordeal in order to secure the cash, then they are not having sex. It is an exploitative transaction.

    Let people use Grindr, or whatever, and remove the cash.

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